Funny How You Can
I'm observant. The kind of observant where I don't even need to ask questions anymore. I'm just watching. And baby, some of y'all are putting on a whole Broadway production. There was a time when I'd try to figure people out. I'd replay conversations. I'd search for misunderstandings. I'd look for the missing piece. I'd wonder if maybe I wasn't communicating clearly enough. Maybe the timing was off. Maybe life got in the way. Maybe they were busy. Now? I just watch. Because a
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Some People Call It Betrayal. I Call It Confirmation.
Special request, written while at cheer* Everybody talks about betrayal like it's about pain. And maybe in the beginning it is. But I've lived long enough, had enough birthdays, enough life experiences, enough ministry moments, enough leadership opportunities, enough friendships, enough relationships, enough family gatherings, enough boardroom conversations, enough prayer closet conversations, enough victories, and yes, enough heartbreaks, to know that pain and betrayal are n
Jun 310 min read
The Question That Broke Me
Mental Health Awareness Month is coming to an end, and if I were preaching, I'd probably have a lot to say. Maybe too much. But I think I'd start here. Earlier today, Dr. Lance sent me a message. Nothing earth-shattering. Nothing dramatic. Just a simple check-in. And if I'm being honest, I was immediately confused. Not because I didn't understand the question. Not because there was some hidden meaning behind it. I was confused because I am so accustomed to being the one check
May 309 min read
