Faith Doesn’t Make Sense. It Makes Miracles.
There are moments in life that don’t ask for your permission. They don’t check your schedule. They don’t ease their way in. They just… happen. And in a matter of seconds, everything you thought was normal shifts. Not long ago, I found myself in one of those moments. My daughter had a seizure. Not the kind you read about. Not the kind you prepare for. The kind that stops your heart for a second because you don’t understand what you’re looking at. Because I didn’t. I didn’t und
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Co-Regulation Is a Love Language (And “Let Me Know” Ain’t It)
Inspired by the post of one Mr. Nobody, writing from my phone. Let me say this clearly from the beginning. This is not about marriage. This is not a relationship advice. Please. Nobody is sending coded messages. Nobody is subtweeting their spouse. Nobody is about to forward this with “See?” attached (I know y'all-so somebody might lol) Yes, I know it’s Valentine’s Day weekend. I see the roses. I see the reservations. I see the matching red outfits and the soft lighting. And I
Feb 154 min read
That Wasn’t Your Rib: The Echo of a Past Relationship
We love to say, “that’s my person.” We say it with certainty. With hope. With plans attached. We call people destiny while we’re still learning who they really are. We call something forever while we’re still in love with the version of them we met, not the one we’re growing with. And sometimes, years later, we look back and have to admit something that doesn’t feel good but is true: That wasn’t my rib . That was just someone I built life around. And when it ends — especially
Feb 44 min read
