Some People Call It Betrayal. I Call It Confirmation.
Special request, written while at cheer* Everybody talks about betrayal like it's about pain. And maybe in the beginning it is. But I've lived long enough, had enough birthdays, enough life experiences, enough ministry moments, enough leadership opportunities, enough friendships, enough relationships, enough family gatherings, enough boardroom conversations, enough prayer closet conversations, enough victories, and yes, enough heartbreaks, to know that pain and betrayal are n
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The Question That Broke Me
Mental Health Awareness Month is coming to an end, and if I were preaching, I'd probably have a lot to say. Maybe too much. But I think I'd start here. Earlier today, Dr. Lance sent me a message. Nothing earth-shattering. Nothing dramatic. Just a simple check-in. And if I'm being honest, I was immediately confused. Not because I didn't understand the question. Not because there was some hidden meaning behind it. I was confused because I am so accustomed to being the one check
4 days ago9 min read
The Coin Flip of Sharing
So boom. One of my homegirls called me, and before she could even finish the sentence, I already knew what kind of conversation we were about to have. You know the tone. That “but when we’re together it feels so real” tone. That “he says I’m the only one he talks to like this” tone. That “I know what it looks like, but you don’t understand him like I do” tone. C'mon yall. I am tired. Not because I don’t care. But because women keep asking for advice when what they really want
May 124 min read
